Tag: open marriage

  • The work place and sex is complicated

    Having been in in the lifestyle for two and half years and still going does not make me an expert.  We have learnt a lot from our mistakes and miscommunication.  Since some of my friends confide in me it has exposed me to questions that are raised.  The one question that came up recently, and also…

  • NRE is real and better than alcohol

    Three days. It took three days and it was all a blur. My new girl who I will call Red took me a New Relationship Energy (NRE) high.  This is the feeling of someone new. Exciting. Thrilling. Intoxicating. Every new girl I have meet this happens to me and it can also blind judgement. Normally…

  • Uhah is not a state

    She loves sucking cock. Now the power of blow me became less effective. So when us guys say “blow me” now it is all we can do to keep their hands off our cocks. So one weekend we came up with some rules. Yes. We might have been drunk but hear me out.

  • PermaGrin is a real thing

    What I didn’t foresee is that when you have a hardon in shorts the tent is very noticeable. You can not cover the parking lot without it being noticed. Hmmm, maybe the teenage girls would have liked that?

  • The heat of the moment – cock rules

    I have been preaching about communication and well I failed miserably on that last night.  I am not meaning to be forgetful, but when things happen and you don’t communicate fully it can get frustrating for the other half, or in my case halves.  So I really have to ensure that all things are communicated…

  • You let your wife do what?

    This is my raw thoughts so no editing has been done.   A smile flashes across my face as I think about what is happening about 30 mins away. Right now my wife is at a friends house about to get fucked. Why am I smiling?  Few reasons with one this is way over due. …

  • Dating for two or more

    As you can see the word communicate is clearly mentioned numerous times. Without this the couple will not survive the lifestyle, let along could risk their marriage. Not telling you partner what you are feeling or thinking runs the risk of assumptions being made. Before we opened up we had a routine, and with that…

  • Open to Change – New Cock – Part 2

    I have broken this into two parts since it is fairly long. This is the continuation of the exploration of a husband and wife and opening up their marriage. Loosely based on real events.

  • Open to Change – New cock – Part 1

    I have broken this into two parts since it is fairly long. This is the continuation of the exploration of a husband and wife and opening up their marriage. Loosely based on real events.

  • Open to Change – the next day

    Here is the continuation of my story OPEN TO CHANGE. This story loosely based on real life events. To be clear this is about a couple exploring their feelings and understanding what they want from their relationship. They are exploring having sexual relationships outside of the marriage.