Tag: open marriage

  • Friends First

    One of the hardest things to find are friends in the lifestyle.  Oh you can meet people and get along but to have that connection on all levels is unique.  Trust and honesty is also another factor.  We have been fortunate and have met two couples that we connected with.  Actually there was another couple…

  • Birthday and new friends

    I swear the birthdays just don’t seem to end. Since March it seems someone always has a birth around the corner. This time it is Lexxi’s turn and Bob had made arrangements for some of their friends to come over to celebrate it. Krystalla informed me that they were friends they have met through different…

  • Location Location Location

    So not having a empty house to use is a pain.  Add on the fact that your date has the same problem and it makes it hard to hook up.  And no I don’t mean just for coffee, I mean for sex.  Yes there are a few that I see that we hook up for…

  • 8 degrees of FWB

    Since I started my blog I have done some topics that were brought up by other friends.  Primarily related to the lifestyle have been some of those.  My hope is that with me exposing the topic and working through what my thoughts about it are might allow the readers to open their mind to the thought.…

  • Monday Reality

    Monday morning I head off to work, still smiling from the past weekend.  I had no idea on my surprise, let alone how much it lifted my spirits up.  The past week was very hard and it was just the boost I needed to get me back to my old self.  My wife was almost…

  • Surprised to silence

    My mind has been in over drive of late. With my birthday weekend having so many ups and downs and work not helping I have been kind of numb.  Going through the motions. Work sleep and work again.  Jane has been my rock through this.  More so then I knew.  Along with my poly wife…

  • Escape – Female point of view of Do Not Disturb

    After Greg posted his story about our time together, I read it over and over (Do not Disturb and Guilty Goodbye).  Not just for the sensuality of the experiences, although they were fun; but because, as the months pass, my memories start to fade.  And my encounter with him was a bit of a turning point for…

  • To my wives…

    This is the follow up to the Guilty Goodbye, since I made one critical mistake.  When I arranged to meet Lilly on the Friday before I went home, I didn’t advise either of my wives of the rendezvous.  We have an open relationship and tell each other everything.  I left this detail out, and even…

  • Guilty Goodbye

    Trust me, I really wanted the booty call. I enjoyed my time with Lilly a lot! We connected strongly and I do not want to hurt her, but I do know I will miss her too. Majority of my woman I have this connection with, and it also stirs up feelings. And I worry about…

  • Do Not Disturb please?

    Do Not Disturb please?

    I quickly grab my pass card and head to the lobby. Nervous, excited and curious has me walking at a brisk pace. Once I get down to the lobby I see a short woman on her phone looking away from me. I figure it is her since no one else is there. “Lilly,” I question…