Tag: lifestyle
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Benefits and the strings that don’t exist
friends with benefits and no strings attached is a complicated matter, even when there is supposed to be no strings.
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Welcome to the swing, just don’t fall off
There is no rule book or guideline to read. I have mentioned this a few times in my previous blogs. This makes the lifestyle unique since there are only two rules that are common with all couples. Respect and Honesty. These two points are mandatory if you plan to make the lifestyle work. Respect is…
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Vanilla is plain, boring and needs a pick me up
It was the first party that I went to after we opened up that I realized how boring vanilla is. To be clear, anyone that is not in the lifestyle is vanilla. Now don’t get me wrong, some of our friends who are vanilla know about us and the lifestyle. The issue is more when…
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At the end of the dildo
These are my thoughts over the past few days. The hardest part lately is that the woman that I am involved with are reading this on a regular basis. I am not here to make drama, but I also want to express to everyone, friends and to my followers on my blog, on what I am…
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Friends first sex later
The misconception of the life style is that we go out and fuck. As much fun that can be the older you get the less appealing it becomes. Like I mentioned earlier every couple follows their own path. Sure, once in a blue moon it might be fun but the one thing that we really…
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The Bet – Day 6
This is a continuation of a story. This is based on true events. It is based on a couple of different peoples points of view so I have labelled who is from when the view point changes. I hope you enjoy it. Day 6 Jane The three hour drive to see Michelle and Dave is…
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The work place and sex is complicated
Having been in in the lifestyle for two and half years and still going does not make me an expert. We have learnt a lot from our mistakes and miscommunication. Since some of my friends confide in me it has exposed me to questions that are raised. The one question that came up recently, and also…
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The Safe Zone sucks
Girls are unique creatures. They like to have nights where they are not hounded by guys. Even at work they like to be able to relax. When a girl knows you are married or taken they are personable and more friendly because you are safe. When you are able to fuck another woman because you are…
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PermaGrin is a real thing
What I didn’t foresee is that when you have a hardon in shorts the tent is very noticeable. You can not cover the parking lot without it being noticed. Hmmm, maybe the teenage girls would have liked that?
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The heat of the moment – cock rules
I have been preaching about communication and well I failed miserably on that last night. I am not meaning to be forgetful, but when things happen and you don’t communicate fully it can get frustrating for the other half, or in my case halves. So I really have to ensure that all things are communicated…