Tag: fwb

  • Distance – it’s a bitch

    With the couples that we have met over the past few years one thing is in common.  Distance is a factor.  Now we don’t go out to clubs and meet people.  True that can work, but for our selves we don’t work that way.  We have used dating sites and of all things twitter.  The…

  • Exposing my inner thoughts on the dark side

    Unknown to me when I was younger, I was dominate when having sex.  I would direct and control the woman with my voice.  Fast forward to now and it something that I am struggling with.  Not the verbal part, that is coming back in stages since I turned it off when I married my wife.…

  • Balance, it is not that easy

    This year will be an interesting one.  Hopefully with change.  Personally I am looking to move out of my role, along with trying to find my wife a new job.  Both have taken a toll since it has been an up hill battle, with one step forward and about five back.  Along with that I am…

  • NYE and the cumming year

    NYE and the cumming year

    Another year has come and past. The highs and lows of the past year has been extreme, with many changes to everyone that I have been involved with. Medical, family, personal and just about any other issue has been felt by all. If you told me three years ago that I would be leading a…

  • Reflection of four different needs

    Reflection of four different needs

    Our quad has settled into a relationship that has become more like married. It has almost been two years since we met and things have evolved dramatically. This past year has been an eye opener for all of us. Needs and desires for each person is different. Nothing wrong with that at all unless they…

  • Highway Sex

    Distance has been my major nemesis of late.  Well distance is always a problem to be fair.  Our quad is separated by 500 km (310 miles) so our visits are scheduled in advance.  Sometimes months in advance.  Add in family functions, birthdays, and other events and you can see that weekends become few and far…

  • In sickness and fwb

    This year has been pretty good for not getting sick. Our quad has been healthy for majority of the year. This weekend we will be meeting up at a hotel and by chance Krystalla gets a cold over the weekend. Hopefully she will get back to healthy by Friday but that leaves me isolated.  Why?…

  • Busy time of year

    Life just gets in the way of writing and keeping up the blog stories. Things should settle down soon.

  • Silence can be good

    So you are all are asking why I am so quiet this past week?  Well okay I at least can dream that you are all asking.  The simple answer, busy.  After the long weekend work has been not very kind.  Plus it is a short week so things seem to pile up pretty quick. The…

  • Benefits and the strings that don’t exist

    friends with benefits and no strings attached is a complicated matter, even when there is supposed to be no strings.