Tag: fwb

  • Dating vs FWB

    Interesting question was raised during a conversation this week and it got me thinking.  Dating and Friends with benefit (FWB) are similar and also not at the same time.  Both could be considering the same with the major exception that Dating is more of a commitment.  It could have different degrees of that, compared to…

  • Flashback – long time cumming

    I really enjoyed this next post. The delay in getting it written was more in trying to get it right.  It was my first time with my one FWB that I have known for close to two years.  Timing it just happened to work out that I had the house to myself.  We have met…

  • Friends First

    One of the hardest things to find are friends in the lifestyle.  Oh you can meet people and get along but to have that connection on all levels is unique.  Trust and honesty is also another factor.  We have been fortunate and have met two couples that we connected with.  Actually there was another couple…

  • Benefits reduced

    I always let the woman know that benefits are a bonus.  Sure, I wish it can happen more but timing and life is a factor.  The other side of the coin is how relationships change.  Again I have lost benefits from one of my good friends.  It is funny how things happen and even over…

  • Unique can not be forgotten

    For past few weeks I have had the good fortune of seeing a few of my fwb.  Timing has actually worked out, although it seems like when it rains it pours.  This week especially has been busy.  The sex has been great as well, but there has been one common factor of late that I…

  • Transparency

    One thing that I have thought humorous over past the years is “the number”.  Telling a guy friend that I am seeing 5 girls at once they pretty much give you a high-five.  Response from a woman is not the same.  Most times there is a long pause.  Then lots of questions. I do not hide…

  • 8 degrees of FWB

    Since I started my blog I have done some topics that were brought up by other friends.  Primarily related to the lifestyle have been some of those.  My hope is that with me exposing the topic and working through what my thoughts about it are might allow the readers to open their mind to the thought.…

  • Monday Reality

    Monday morning I head off to work, still smiling from the past weekend.  I had no idea on my surprise, let alone how much it lifted my spirits up.  The past week was very hard and it was just the boost I needed to get me back to my old self.  My wife was almost…

  • Feeling limitations

    For some of you that follow me I have a few fwb. Well if I was to count them up you would be shaking your head. Doesn’t mean I have sex all the time. We are all busy with life, family, work and friends. This is my dilemma of late on balancing the relationships. Of…

  • Do Not Disturb please?

    Do Not Disturb please?

    I quickly grab my pass card and head to the lobby. Nervous, excited and curious has me walking at a brisk pace. Once I get down to the lobby I see a short woman on her phone looking away from me. I figure it is her since no one else is there. “Lilly,” I question…