Tag: fwb

  • 2023 and post Covid

    It has been a long time since I have posted something new. Well new in the sense on what has transpired over the past few years. Well more like 4 years based on some of my postings. Lot of things have changed, and some are the same. The biggest change is relationships and who I…

  • A stab at Definitions

    Discussions surrounding poly, friends with benefit, open marriage and other areas has lead to me thinking more about my definitions. Like everything this is my personal opinion based on discussions with numerous different people, male and female in the lifestyle.

  • Bring on 2018

    The past year has been somewhat of a challenge for me. Primarily on the social aspect since work has consumed my life. The amount of hours worked the last half of the year has earned me high praise from my upper management, but at the cost of no life. I barely have any time for…

  • Little lost

    There is always a cycle of ups and downs in our lives.  I am going through an extended downward spiral.  Not by choice but by circumstance. Maybe because I am burying my grandfather this weekend.  Maybe cause I have had majority of my fwb go off the market.  Maybe since I haven’t meet anyone new…

  • Re-Union with Lilly

    Funny how distance can make relationships feel like a new experience after many months.  Lily planned to visit with her kids for a Canadian vacation for our second meet up of the year.   Knowing that it will be a challenge to have her alone to spend time together since all our kids will be home.…

  • It was a dark and snowy night

    The lights shiny brightly as the bus pulled into the terminal.  Glancing around I see that I am the only one heading towards it.  Doors open with the familiar swoosh sound and I head up the stairs to board the bus.  It is dark, being it is night time there are no running lights inside.  I glance down…

  • Introductions to my wife

    Over the years that we have been in the lifestyle (has it been for years already?) I have made a lot of new friends.  Most of these women have met my wife.  As well I have met majority of their spouses.  I don’t think anything of it when introducing my new friends/lovers to my wife.…

  • Feelings – when is it to much

    The number of girls that I have dated and seen over the past few years is not that many.  Well at least not on the fwb side of things.  One reason why I enjoy meeting new women is getting to know someone.  Each one is exciting and the NRE is like a drug.  Even after it…

  • One year – how things have changed

    Well after a year I have learned a lot about myself. More from writing and reflecting on myself. Along with discussions with like minded people I think I know more about what I am like. And finding out what I don’t want to become again.  

  • NSA

    To be fair I use a lot of different terms to make a black and white statement clearer.  That is because with the lifestyle there are a lot of gray areas as well.  My previous post about Dating & FWB seems to have made a few women comment directly to me.  They had an issue with the…