Tag: dating

  • Subject to opinion

    For those that know me please understand this is what I perceive. So trying to find new blood.   Not a lot of options outside of dating sites.   Really hate them since in my previous rants women really seem to be picky.   With that said it also could be related to volume.  Either…

  • Long ride

    For some of you that know me, or follow me on Twitter I am heading back to see my other girlfriend.  It will take about 12 hours by bus to get there.  Most of you are shaking your head but let me explain. I have been working on going back to see Lilly for a…

  • Introductions to my wife

    Over the years that we have been in the lifestyle (has it been for years already?) I have made a lot of new friends.  Most of these women have met my wife.  As well I have met majority of their spouses.  I don’t think anything of it when introducing my new friends/lovers to my wife.…

  • Dutch Money

    One of the biggest things for me of late is going out. With limited funds I find it hard to justify going out on a date. I can’t afford dinner, drinks or movies so coffee has been the default option.  This also compounds trying to meet new people.  Not having funds makes it hard to…

  • NSA

    To be fair I use a lot of different terms to make a black and white statement clearer.  That is because with the lifestyle there are a lot of gray areas as well.  My previous post about Dating & FWB seems to have made a few women comment directly to me.  They had an issue with the…

  • Dating vs FWB

    Interesting question was raised during a conversation this week and it got me thinking.  Dating and Friends with benefit (FWB) are similar and also not at the same time.  Both could be considering the same with the major exception that Dating is more of a commitment.  It could have different degrees of that, compared to…

  • Timing is everthing

    Working out of Toronto is a pain. My routine for morning and evening is way out of whack. No free time is what I am experiencing and it has been along time since I have dealt with it.  Add on the social aspect and it is compounded. I normally talk all the time but driving…

  • All nice guys…

    Recently it was stated to me that “All than nice guys must be polygamous.” I paused for a second and thought about that statement. The lifestyle commands respect, since everyone is there to have fun with no pressure and drama.

  • NYE and the cumming year

    NYE and the cumming year

    Another year has come and past. The highs and lows of the past year has been extreme, with many changes to everyone that I have been involved with. Medical, family, personal and just about any other issue has been felt by all. If you told me three years ago that I would be leading a…

  • Attention makes you a super hero

    The right amount of attention can make a man a super hero. He will do unbelievable things. And the more attention we get it is possible the wilder we get. I know for myself that I can start to act more freely if get positive attention, which can be dangerous when combined with alcohol. And…