We started swinging because I was not able to find any women. The hardest part in this lifestyle is finding like minded people let alone women who understand that I am married and can fuck. Still is a battle even now. Krystalla realized how frustrating it was for me back then and she suggested swinging, to let me experience another woman. By chance we did find a couple and ended up meeting one evening. This is a recount on what happened and lessons learned.
>>>>>> First time Swinging
Well there is one thing that will happen at least once to a man. That is the cock not waking up. Soft wood is no laughing matter. It will happen, and for a man it is humiliating. Only because for years it worked with no thought or concern. Then that one night, the night where you were ready but your cock wasn’t, even willing it with your mind and nothing. Most times this is a mental block. Myself I went through this and it is something that takes time. One reason for the article since it is something that is not often brought up.
The other side of the coin is the woman. Most women I have been with have been supportive, with only a few asking why is it not hard. And harping on it. Not the best way to get the man to have confidence. Man’s pride is one part of his body and if that fails well it takes a hit to his self esteem. I hope that this article might give a little insight. I been meaning to do a follow up to this since it has been a while since I brought it up.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Soft wood, hard wood, they just want wood
The long weekend is here and with that another road trip. I was up late last night for a couple of reasons one the primary one being my wife was out on a date. The dogs would have been woken up if I went to bed so it is easier if I just wait up for her. Plus I told her she will make me cum before we go to sleep. Been a couple of days of lousy timing with me wanting to have sex but our schedules have not really matched up.
This weekend was to be a reunion with our Cuba couples but timing didn’t work out and the one couple had to cancel coming down. We are disappointed but things happen that we just can’t plan. This also lead me to a flashback to one summer night last year. Since I am doing flashbacks for the next month why not that one night.
Of course the story is fictional in the sense, but I enjoyed the play on how I wrote it. Even thought about using these imaginary characters into a book. There is a small truth to the story although it is more fantasy in the sense on the characters. I had a lot of fun writing this one and maybe one day I will continue it.
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Full Moon
During my first few years in the lifestyle my old habits started to emerge. You see when I started to date my wife I was not the most decent guy. I was always looking for my next girl that I could be with. Not for any length of time, but for sex. She calmed me down, made me appreciate having a relationship. It also meant that I had to turn off some urges. This took time, and with the opening up of our marriage these switches are slowly being turned back on. One of the is the hunt.
I have described my pursuit of girls by the simple analogy of like stalking wild game. The hunt, pursuit and then the kill (sex). Terms that I have also used is “fresh meat” for someone who is new to me. This may sound odd or insulting, but I know of another guy who uses baseball as a way to explain what he has. The girls he is seeing are on the bench, and Franchise player might be the one. Either way, I don’t let everyone know this, since some woman take offence to being classified as meat. Again, this is not how I treat them but more how I portray the urge for me to have them.
With this is mind I wrote up this simple story. It simplifies on how I would approach a new girl. I don’t work good in a group, need to be alone with the girl so there are no other distractions. Unlike other guys I know who flow through a group like a knife through butter I need to have the woman isolated but not cornered. To eliminate other people around allows the focus to be on us two. The story is bit humorous but it gives a little insight on how I think when I have a chance. Hopefully if things go well I will be able to try this later today. Anyways, here is THE HUNT from August 2014.
>>> THE HUNT
Women have always states that the man has to brains. Well two parts that think, head and cock. The one can’t control the other and with age this becomes more apparent than ever.
Continue reading No mind control here
This past summer there was a discussion on a topic that was very important to us. We really didn’t come up with a final answer so figure maybe the interweb could help us decide. The simple question is: Continue reading How do you roll?
I would love to have the time to take photos of things that will work with my articles. Problem is I don’t have the time or subjects to do some of the things that appear in my head. So with that I am going to the public and asking if anyone wants to ‘donate’ pictures to my site. First thing is that all credit will be given to the owner of the pictures. They would be used only on this site. Obviously there are a few important rules.
- you must be the owner of the picture. If you are not than the picture cannot be used
- No under age girls or boys. This is an adult site and adult material is only accepted
- there is no monetary pay for this – this is free donation to my site to use for my articles
- Please have something erotic to show since pussy or cock pics I can easily get. Something that pertains to the lifestyle.
So the question is how do you get the pics to me for review? Please use twitter and post the picture that you want to donate with the hashtag #opencouplingxxxpic and tag @sweetgunnar in it. You also need to follow @sweetgunnar so that I can DM you if you are chosen.
Granted I am not a large publication but having some pictures of that can enhance my articles would be great. And if no one wants to donate that is fine too but I hope to have a few fans find something that could be used in my up coming articles.
Well I have now opened up registration for the site. You are only allowed to be a subscriber to the site but it will allow you to get notified of any new posts or updates easier. If you already have a wordpress account you won’t need to register and can interact like other wordpress sites.
I have also finally added in most of the common features that are on the wordpress site so it should allow easier sharing and liking posts.
My next question is : Anything you want to see or hear about? I take a lot of creativity from what I am doing along with what I have been asked for in advice from friends in the lifestyle. Is there a burning question that you want to have discussed? Feel free to send me a tweet or fill in the contact page below.
There has been an on going discussion about head within our quad. Well more logistics, you see we had an experience with three girls on one cock not to long ago. Later that day, or maybe the next day, it came up about having four girls on one cock. Discussing the logistics on how it would work it than came up with how would five work. Continue reading Five heads are better than one
Well I have finally found the widget/plugin to allow you all to get notified when I update my blog. Please be aware that it will not be the same experience you are used to since it is not tied directly into wordpress. If you have any issues with it please let me know.