Category: Personal Insight

  • Out of arms reach

    You can’t chose who you have feelings for.  It happens.  This is something I have gotten used to over the past few years.  The problem is that most women aren’t close by. So when you have a person who is far away and having a tough time I feel powerless.  I want to help.  Need…

  • Subject to opinion

    For those that know me please understand this is what I perceive. So trying to find new blood.   Not a lot of options outside of dating sites.   Really hate them since in my previous rants women really seem to be picky.   With that said it also could be related to volume.  Either…

  • Little lost

    There is always a cycle of ups and downs in our lives.  I am going through an extended downward spiral.  Not by choice but by circumstance. Maybe because I am burying my grandfather this weekend.  Maybe cause I have had majority of my fwb go off the market.  Maybe since I haven’t meet anyone new…

  • Re-Union with Lilly

    Funny how distance can make relationships feel like a new experience after many months.  Lily planned to visit with her kids for a Canadian vacation for our second meet up of the year.   Knowing that it will be a challenge to have her alone to spend time together since all our kids will be home.…

  • Overdue

    Didn’t realize how long ago it was for my last post.  No I haven’t gone away.  Actually busy.   Oh not in that way… which is why this post. The reason I started this blog is to write my ideas and thoughts help. Makes me process them better. Reason why I have been quiet of late…

  • Sex talk

    Sex is usually talked about behind closed doors.  Something that is instilled by our parents when we are young.  It is taboo.  Shouldn’t be talked about.  Heck even TV and movies didn’t show anything since it is so bad for you.  Fast forward some years ahead (nice try, birthday is coming up but not going…

  • It was a dark and snowy night

    The lights shiny brightly as the bus pulled into the terminal.  Glancing around I see that I am the only one heading towards it.  Doors open with the familiar swoosh sound and I head up the stairs to board the bus.  It is dark, being it is night time there are no running lights inside.  I glance down…

  • Long ride

    For some of you that know me, or follow me on Twitter I am heading back to see my other girlfriend.  It will take about 12 hours by bus to get there.  Most of you are shaking your head but let me explain. I have been working on going back to see Lilly for a…

  • Stood up

    I would think I am polite and nice guy.  If I am not able to meet then I would let the other person know.  Common courtesy. At least that is how I operate. I have meet a few women online that seem to think that doesn’t matter.   Have been ignored, deleted with no explanation and…

  • Branching Out

    We have been asked by our good friends at http://sexlifeandeverything.com/ to contribute some posts to their site.  The Quad  now has a short BIO on their site as of this week.  I have no idea what to expect from this but I am looking forward to having the creative juices stirring again.  If there are posts…