Open Coupling

Category: Personal Insight

  • Boundaries are there for a reason

    Rules are made not to be broken in the lifestyle. They protect the couple along with who you are with.  This ensures that what happens is with in everyone’s comfort zone.

  • Vanilla is plain, boring and needs a pick me up

    It was the first party that I went to after we opened up that I realized how boring vanilla is.  To be clear, anyone that is not in the lifestyle is vanilla.  Now don’t get me wrong, some of our friends who are vanilla know about us and the lifestyle.  The issue is more when…

  • At the end of the dildo

    These are my thoughts over the past few days.  The hardest part lately is that the woman that I am involved with are reading this on a regular basis.  I am not here to make drama, but I also want to express to everyone, friends and to my followers on my blog, on what I am…

  • Hello world!

    Welcome to WordPress. This is your first post. Edit or delete it, then start blogging!

  • Friends first sex later

    The misconception of the life style is that we go out and fuck. As much fun that can be the older you get the less appealing it becomes. Like I mentioned earlier every couple follows their own path. Sure, once in a blue moon it might be fun but the one thing that we really…

  • Get Social out there

    Social media is one of the biggest drivers of news and information currently out there now.  You can find out up to the minute information before even the news outlets report it.  It also allows information to spread quickly.  

  • The lure of new meat

    For the past month or so I have been struggling with my quad and what they enjoy.  Let me qualify that the “quad” is: my wife and myself along with our close couple we have been involved with.  The struggle is not our relationship but what they enjoy in the bedroom.  I have tried lots…

  • The work place and sex is complicated

    Having been in in the lifestyle for two and half years and still going does not make me an expert.  We have learnt a lot from our mistakes and miscommunication.  Since some of my friends confide in me it has exposed me to questions that are raised.  The one question that came up recently, and also…

  • Verbal is my weapon

    Whispering into her ear, “I want to taste you pussy, feel my tongue sucking and licking your clit. My fingers travelling between the fold of your lips to feel how hot and wet you are getting from my tongue,” has gotten woman wet just sitting in a chair and hearing that.

  • The Safe Zone sucks

    Girls are unique creatures.  They like to have nights where they are not hounded by guys.  Even at work they like to be able to relax.  When a girl knows you are married or taken they are personable and more friendly because you are safe.  When you are able to fuck another woman because you are…