Category: Lifestyle

  • 2023 and post Covid

    It has been a long time since I have posted something new. Well new in the sense on what has transpired over the past few years. Well more like 4 years based on some of my postings. Lot of things have changed, and some are the same. The biggest change is relationships and who I…

  • By Proxy

    During the kinky camp weekend it was pointed out on what I am.  I have been vocal that I am not kinky.  Well not in the sense on what the women in my life want.  I am verbal and dominating in that sense, but that as far as it goes.

  • Kinky Camp

    What had me fascinated is the roles that are on display 24/7.  Clubs have a limited time to expose the D/S relationships and the different dynamics. 

  • A stab at Definitions

    Discussions surrounding poly, friends with benefit, open marriage and other areas has lead to me thinking more about my definitions. Like everything this is my personal opinion based on discussions with numerous different people, male and female in the lifestyle.

  • Bruised and sore

    I appreciate this from her relationships. Just sometimes having her home after with sensitive areas can make for some awkward giggly moments.

  • Intense

    In short for anyone that is new to the lifestyle really think about the open communication. Don’t keep your fears and worries behind closed doors.

  • Re-Union with Lilly

    Funny how distance can make relationships feel like a new experience after many months.  Lily planned to visit with her kids for a Canadian vacation for our second meet up of the year.   Knowing that it will be a challenge to have her alone to spend time together since all our kids will be home.…

  • Sex talk

    Sex is usually talked about behind closed doors.  Something that is instilled by our parents when we are young.  It is taboo.  Shouldn’t be talked about.  Heck even TV and movies didn’t show anything since it is so bad for you.  Fast forward some years ahead (nice try, birthday is coming up but not going…

  • Three years later

    I wouldn’t have expected to have two wives.  Didn’t expect it would also be three years into the relationship and it feels more like we have been married for longer.  Having two wives is a lot of work.  Balancing emotions, needs along with two very different personalities can be draining.  Plus the other relationships that…

  • Introductions to my wife

    Over the years that we have been in the lifestyle (has it been for years already?) I have made a lot of new friends.  Most of these women have met my wife.  As well I have met majority of their spouses.  I don’t think anything of it when introducing my new friends/lovers to my wife.…